Have you ever stopped yourself from saying what you really think—not because you didn’t have the words, but because it felt safer to stay quiet? Yeah, me too. This year, I’m on a mission to stop holding back and start showing up as my unfiltered, messy, and real self. Easier said than done, right? Vulnerability is hard work, and honestly, it can feel like walking into a room wearing mismatched shoes—uncomfortable and way too noticeable.

In this post, I’m unpacking why we hold back, the sneaky ways we hide ourselves, and how leaning into vulnerability can actually be freeing. If you’ve ever felt like you’re stuck on the sidelines of your own life, this might be the nudge you need to step into the spotlight—weird shoes and all.